Parental alienation: email till Peter Kallmyr
PARENTAL ALIENATION - A CHILD ABUSE,
PROTECTED BY THE SOCIAL BOARD IN UDDEVALLA, SWEDEN
det är den typen emails som jag växlar med peter kallmyr,mina tre barns far, nuförtiden
kopia
hej peter
hur mkt enklare blir inte livet om du tillåter barna umgås med sin mamma,
om du nedvärderar dig att prata med henne
istället att bara slå, mordhota och utnyttja henne på hennes pengar och prylar
har du tänkt på det alternativet
kanske inte bara du hade mått bra då
utan även dina barn
och deras mor på köpet
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Mariyka Tomova-Kallmyr
here You can read about Parental alienation syndrome
a Uddevalla city realitty and belowed metod in the social board uddevalla municipality, sweden, today against the foreign parent
The Impact of Parental Alienation on Children Undermining loving parent-child relationships as child maltreatment
here you can hear an older skype camera type how much the swedish soc secretary Katarina Roslund-Larsson stresses our family in Uddevalla last years, min2.04 is the start to listen
Nope.Parentalalienation is not a strenght. neither for the father or for the soc service.
we read from above it is a weaknesss.
"What children of divorce
most want and need is to maintain healthy and strong relationships with
both of their parents, and to be shielded from their parents'
conflicts.
Some parents, however, in an effort to bolster their parental identity, create an expectation that children choose sides. In more extreme situations, they foster the child’s rejection of the other parent. In the most extreme cases, children are manipulated by one parent to hate the other, despite children’s innate desire to love and be loved by both their parents.
Parental alienation involves the “programming” of a child by one parent to denigrate the other “targeted” parent, in an effort to undermine and interfere with the child's relationship with that parent,and is often a sign of a parent’s inability to separate from the couple conflict and focus on the needs of the child."
here,bellow, you can read the entire text fr the link.
and, yes, the text is as written abt us.
The Impact of Parental Alienation on Children
I offer the first installment of a three-part series examining (1) the impact of parental alienation on children, (2) the effects of parental alienation on parents, and (3) programs, services and interventions that combat alienation and seek to reunite estranged parents and their children.
What children of divorce most want and need is to maintain healthy and strong relationships with both of their parents, and to be shielded from their parents' conflicts. Some parents, however, in an effort to bolster their parental identity, create an expectation that children choose sides. In more extreme situations, they foster the child’s rejection of the other parent. In the most extreme cases, children are manipulated by one parent to hate the other, despite children’s innate desire to love and be loved by both their parents.
Parental alienation involves the “programming” of a child by one
parent to denigrate the other “targeted” parent, in an effort to
undermine and interfere with the child's relationship with that parent,
and is often a sign of a parent’s inability to separate from the couple
conflict and focus on the needs of the child. Such denigration results
in the child’s emotional rejection of the targeted parent, and the loss
of a capable and loving parent from the life of the child.
Psychiatrist Richard Gardner developed the concept of "parental alienation syndrome" 20 years ago, defining it as, "a disorder that arises primarily in the context of child custody disputes. Its primary manifestation is the child's campaign of denigration against a parent, a campaign that has no justification. It results from the combination of a programming (brainwashing) parent's indoctrinations and the child's own contributions to the vilification of the target parent." Children’s views of the targeted parent are almost exclusively negative, to the point that the parent is demonized and seen as evil.
As Amy Baker writes, parental alienation involves a set of strategies, including bad-mouthing the other parent, limiting contact with that parent, erasing the other parent from the life and mind of the child (forbidding discussion and pictures of the other parent), forcing the child to reject the other parent, creating the impression that the other parent is dangerous, forcing the child to choose between the parents by means of threats of withdrawal of affection, and belittling and limiting contact with the extended family of the targeted parent. In my own research on non-custodial parents who have become disengaged from their children’s lives (Kruk, 2011), I found that most lost contact involuntarily, many as a result of parental alienation. Constructive alternatives to adversarial methods of reconnecting with their children were rarely available to these alienated parents.
Parental alienation is more common than is often assumed: Fidler and Bala (2010) report both an increasing incidence and increased judicial findings of parental alienation; they report estimates of parental alienation in 11-15% of divorces involving children; Bernet et al (2010) estimate that about 1% of children and adolescents in North America experience parental alienation.
There is now scholarly consensus that severe alienation is abusive to children (Fidler and Bala, 2010), and it is a largely overlooked form of child abuse (Bernet et al, 2010), as child welfare and divorce practitioners are often unaware of or minimize its extent. As reported by adult children of divorce, the tactics of alienating parents are tantamount to extreme psychological maltreatment of children, including spurning, terrorizing, isolating, corrupting or exploiting, and denying emotional responsiveness (Baker, 2010). For the child, parental alienation is a serious mental condition, based on a false belief that the alienated parent is a dangerous and unworthy parent. The severe effects of parental alienation on children are well-documented; low self esteem and self-hatred, lack of trust, depression, and substance abuse and other forms of addiction are widespread, as children lose the capacity to give and accept love from a parent. Self-hatred is particularly disturbing among affected children, as children internalize the hatred targeted toward the alienated parent, are led to believe that the alienated parent did not love or want them, and experience severe guilt related to betraying the alienated parent. Their depression is rooted is feelings of being unloved by one of their parents, and from separation from that parent, while being denied the opportunity to mourn the loss of the parent, or to even talk about the parent. Alienated children typically have conflicted or distant relationships with the alienating parent also, and are at high risk of becoming alienated from their own children; Baker reports that fully half of the respondents in her study of adult children who had experienced alienation as children were alienated from their own children.
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доктор психолог Лйена Хелблуум Хйегрен разказва пред Йержи Донус как ел вйе ю зираните деца в Швеция биват манипулирани и как домовете им промиват мозъка